When I was a kid, houses just didn't have cooling of any kind. Even "rich" families had no more than shutters and fans to combat summer heat.
Our house stayed cooler than many others. Its largest walls faced east/west, and there were large shade trees to the south, so it often felt cool even in the middle of summer. That was in the daytime, though; at night, it was often hot and stuffy.
I can't stand the sensation of wind on my body, or "white noise," so fans were never the solution. An open window just seemed to funnel every traffic noise straight into my head. I absolutely must have covers, at least from the knee down, and preferably from the waist down, even when I'm broiling. Summer nights, it goes without saying, could be miserable, especially when you shared a room and a double bed with a sibling.
I was probably about 11 or 12 when I first asked my mom if I could please, for the love of all that's holy, just sleep outside. It was misery inducing to be playing outdoors in the dark - and I was always outdoors as a kid - and then walk into our comparative oven of a house and be expected to sleep. My sister loved everything that I hated - an open window, a fan and no covers - so sharing a bed made us both, um, grouchy.
We lived on a fairly busy street, but since my parents had purchased the property when it was "way out in the sticks," on a dirt road, they had an acre and a third. We had a huge fenced back yard, and it was impossible to see even the next door neighbors.
I've always been a very solitary being, so the thought of being alone did not disturb me in the slightest. I would have been deeply disconcerted to be within view of the neighbors or passersby on either street (we lived on a corner lot). I felt perfectly safe in the yard. Plus, there were two dogs in the long, narrow kennel that separated the back yard from the horse pasture, and they'd sound the alarm if there were any intruders. I was a tiny bit nervous about the fact that the back door had to be left unlocked, so I could go in and use the bathroom, but the risk seemed small.
We took vacations every year, week long excursions to mountains, lakes, deserts and rivers. Until I was 16, I had only spent two nights in motel rooms; we camped everywhere we went. Even when we weren't camping, we'd be someplace like my cousin's cabin at Mount Shasta, so cots and sleeping bags were familiar. The chaise in the back yard was more comfortable and more padded than sleeping on the ground, which was the vacation norm. I have never been a prissy girl, afraid of bugs and bats or the dark.
The first night was a relief beyond description. It was cool, quiet, private and blissful. "Can I do that every night?" I wanted to know the next morning.
I loved those nights lying on the chaise, looking up at the sky. Staring up into the night sky has never made me feel small and insignificant; it makes me feel connected to everything and everyone. I loved the sound of the crickets, and the occasional songs of frogs. It was just blissful.
I would lie awake and think, and think, and ponder. It was beautiful.
I started spending every summer night in the back yard. It was always a little disappointing when it got too cold to sleep outside, some time around the beginning of the school year.
By the time I was about 14, I could accurately tell you the time any time between about 9:00 p.m. and midnight just by looking up. I had spent so many hours watching the stars crawl across the sky that I knew that if they were in this position, it was about 9:45; if they were here, it was about 11.
Once when I was in high school, a group of us had just left the movies, and someone wanted to know what time it was. I looked up and said, "It's about 10:30." I was instantly subject to all kinds of teasing. "What was that?" "What are you doing?" "How can you tell?" "Do you think you're Magellan or something?"
"No. I just know. See, those stars over there..."
"AH HA HA HA HA!" My peers were unimpressed and unconvinced.
Someone looked at their watch and said, "You're wrong! It's 10:40!"
"First of all, I said, 'about.' And we've been standing here arguing for almost five minutes."
"You just estimated based on what time the movie started."
Well, smartypants, then figure out what time it is on your own. See if I trot out my parlor tricks.
Sometimes, I really miss those nights of lying outside, looking at the stars. My home now is a two story house between other two story houses - I can't do anything in my yard without someone watching. Not that they'd be interested in watching me sleep; I just can't be comfortable in view of so many windows.
When it's dark and cool, and the crickets are chirping, everything in my body relaxes. I'd love a chaise, or a hammock, or better yet, a big comfy bed, out under the stars.
It's starting to get uncomfortably warm at night. Last night it was hot and stuffy, and I missed my days on the back yard chaise.
If I'm ever in a nursing home some day, and they complain that I wander off at night, just tell them to let me sleep on the patio. Trust me - we'll all be happier that way.
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Monday, April 29, 2013
Thursday, November 29, 2012
Illness, Part 4: Symptoms
I know, usually symptoms are part 1 of an illness. Sometimes the timeline doesn't look quite so neat and organized.
After I had my thyroid removed in August, people said things to me like, "Was it making you just miserable?" Well... yes and no. I was certainly aware that the way I felt was not optimal, but it was very normal for me.
I really didn't care to discuss how I felt, either, as most symptoms were vague sounding and lent themselves to armchair diagnoses, and people telling me what I "should" do.
Take fatigue; it's been one of the overriding symptoms of my body chemistry gone wrong. Still, the fact that my body chemistry might be screwed was the last considered possibility on everyone's mental list.
It wasn't a new or alarming symptom. As a teenager, I never pulled an all-nighter, for any reason. Slumber parties always found me being the first one asleep. One of my childhood best friends had a slumber party at her house with half a dozen girls piled into the living room. The stereo was on, kids were dancing, the popcorn popper was going - and in the middle of it all, I was asleep on the floor. It was always like that. I was usually the last one awake the next morning, too. The other kids found me very odd.
I never understood the reasoning behind staying up late to study for a big test. Staying up late would guarantee me that I would do poorly on a test. I've never been intoxicated, but I completely understand why studies show that drowsy driving is indistinguishable from drunk driving. Being tired means that my thoughts, reactions, understanding of situations, reasoning ability, emotions, co-ordination and recall are all deeply impaired. If I wanted to do well on a test, it was best that I get extra sleep.
I've read that if you need an alarm clock to wake up, you're not getting enough sleep. That never made sense to me. "Your body will automatically wake up when you've had enough sleep to be refreshed," I remember reading. HA! I laughed. Without an alarm, I would routinely sleep 12 hours or more, and I never felt refreshed. Ever.
It's always been worse when I'm sick. A couple of years ago, when I had the flu, my kids left me alone until after 3 in the afternoon, when my son finally decided he'd better wake me up. (I'd gone to bed at 10 the night before.) Still, everyone's more tired when they're sick.
"You're sleeping too much," people said. "Sleep less and you'll feel better." It did no good to say, "No. I won't." I had two choices: feel like a total, barely functional zombie, or be functional.
Mostly, people said, "Lose weight and exercise more. Then you'll feel better." I got tired of explaining that I felt exactly the same when I was 12 years old and (literally) half my current weight (and still my current height). I fell asleep in high school classes (especially right after lunch) more often than I wanted to count. At 18, I once fell asleep at my office job. I was doing better as an adult, despite being heavier, because I no longer saw any possible benefit in pushing until I'm totally exhausted.
"It's just a habit," people said. "Train yourself to expect less sleep, and you'll be fine." Ugh. This, again, ignored the fact that, as a parent, I've had to function for weeks (and months) straight on very little, constantly interrupted sleep. I know what it feels like, and doing that for long periods is dangerous. It can be done, but it's not good for anybody.
It took me years to convince my husband that when we go on vacation, I can do early mornings OR late nights, not both. If I push too hard, I will get sick. "Illness is caused by germs," he'd say. "There's no way this will make you sick." He's one of those people who wants to be the first one in Disneyland for Magic Morning hours, and the last to leave Main Street an hour after the park has officially closed. I can't do that.
"You're imagining things. You think you'll get sick, so you do," people said. I'm not a hysteric or an attention seeker. I've actually had to go to an urgent care facility while on vacation on more than one occasion. I'd SO much rather be doing something else, but I can't. Attending a friend's wedding in Palm Springs in August one year, I contracted such a vicious case of bronchitis that it took 3 full courses of antibiotics to kill, and left me with permanent lung damage. Six years later, in Florida in April, my newly acquired asthma (thank you, aforementioned lung damage) left me unable to breathe and scrambling to procure an inhaler.
We learned to take it easy. Still, a vacation (which I truly enjoy) usually meant that I'd be sick, while still traveling or after returning home. Sometimes, my husband and kids would leave me in a hotel room to sleep all day one day, so that I could resume functioning for the rest of the trip.
Seven weeks after my surgery, we were taking a trip that we'd planned for over a year. It meant hotels in 4 different cities over 12 days, a lot of driving, amusement parks, museums, the zoo, the aquarium, family visits, the beach and the wild animal park, all with my entire immediate family of 7. We weren't sure how I'd feel, so I was prepared to take a day off if I needed it. I didn't.
One of the biggest surprises after the surgery was how I felt. "You'll be completely miserable for about 6 weeks," the surgeon had told me. "Then it'll slowly start to get better." I never got to completely miserable. I went from mildly uncomfortable straight up to better than I'd ever felt. Five days after surgery, I was shooting portraits.
I started waking up five to ten minutes before my alarm went off - not once or twice, but regularly. Once, I woke up a full hour before my alarm. I lay there thinking, "Is it just my bladder waking me up? Am I still tired?" Nope. So, up I got, and on with my day. It's happened again. Days when I could sleep in had me waking up and ready to go 45 minutes before my alarm went off.
I rarely needed a nap. I think I took maybe 3 naps in almost 3 months. That's unheard of.
We went through the entire twelve day trip, and I felt fabulous. I didn't sleep in, I didn't get sick, my asthma stayed quiet. I came home thinking, "Oh, it'll hit now." I had a full schedule of rehearsals, photos to shoot, early morning classes to take my son to, and I still felt great.
My husband couldn't get over it. "That trip would have killed you before! You'd be bedridden for days!" I know! It was amazing.
I also - and this was just as amazing - fell asleep within minutes of going to bed. One of the worst parts of the constant exhaustion I'm used to is that it's perversely accompanied by insomnia. It could take 3 or 4 hours to fall asleep, despite being so tired I was nearly in tears. ("It's because you actually sleep too much," people would say. I will not describe how annoying I found that attitude.) Too often, I resorted to Tylenol PM in an effort to fall asleep. Now, I lay down and actually fell asleep! It was amazing and exciting.
Another "normal for me" problem that I've had my whole like is hypoglycemia - low blood sugar. It runs in my family. I never associated it with my thyroid, or considered it "curable."
When you're hypoglycemic, you need to eat regularly, preferably high protein meals. Skipping meals, especially breakfast, can be disastrous. I have scars on my shoulder from the time I passed out, at age 17, while cooking eggs for breakfast and fell against the burner on the way down. Pregnant with my first child at 20, I passed out at the top of a flight of stairs. I learned to make breakfast my first priority.
When you're fat, and I am, people are very skeptical when you tell them what you eat, when and why. We were friends with the manager of a local pizza place, and he noticed my food one day while we had lunch at their buffet. I had 2 slices of pizza and a salad. "Are you on a diet?" he asked. "Are you trying to be good?" No. That's how I eat. If I felt like having half a pizza, I would. I not only don't feel like it, I'm pretty sure I'd throw up if I piled my plate the way some patrons do. That messes with people's heads. They're sure I do a lot of secret eating. I don't. I don't do a lot of secret anything.
I read weight loss stories where people tell how they'd down a whole pizza and a quart of ice cream, then order Chinese takeout before they changed their ways and lost weight and I think, "Holy cow!" I don't care how big or small you are, eating like that is a terrible idea. It's also nothing that I ever did. I don't binge; I don't starve.
When you tell people that you have a medical condition that requires you to eat regularly, or to stop for a snack during the afternoon, nobody thinks anything of it if you're skinny. If you're fat, they say things about "justification" and "denial" (in private if not to your face). It's SO aggravating.
Again, I'm not imagining these issues. Again, low blood sugar runs in the family.
I know the symptoms. If I don't eat correctly (read: regularly and high protein), first I'll feel nauseated and headachy. If I don't fix it, then I start getting disoriented, shaky and weak. If, heaven forbid, I don't fix it then, my ears will start to ring and the color will drain out of everything, leaving it black and white. If I don't get some juice or something else that absorbs quickly into my system at that point, I faint. The rest of my family gets similar symptoms. My son's vision has never gone totally black and white; he gets a pulsing black ring around the edges of his vision.
After the surgery, I've had no blood sugar issues. I once had a granola bar for breakfast and ate nothing else until 2 in the afternoon, and had no problems. It wasn't even a protein bar or a nut bar, just a plain old Quaker Oat bar barely bigger than a cigar. That, again, is unheard of. I didn't even get a headache.
I went in to my surgeon for a checkup after I came home from vacation. Since my thyroid is gone, I'll be taking daily medication for the rest of my life. He started me on a very generic "adult dose," and at my last checkup told me that he'd be increasing the dosage by 25 milligrams. "You should start to feel a lot better, and have a lot more energy. You should also start to lose some weight," he said. Feel better? More energy? That was almost inconceivable; I'd surely be able to leap tall buildings in a single bound.
Soon after switching the dosage, I started to feel run down. I wondered if I was finally getting a cold. Usually, by the end of November, as it is now, I've had two or three ugly ones. I haven't had any this fall.
Nope. Soon I was exhausted, all the time, having blood sugar issues, facing insomnia ... in short, feeling like I did before the surgery.
Worse, I developed one of the symptoms that they had warned me I would develop if I left my thyroid issues untreated - irregular heartbeat. I'll be lying down, trying to sleep, and my heart will start speeding up. Then, instead of a normal "bum bum, bum bum" rhythm, my heart would go, "bum bum, bum bum, bum BAM!, bum bum, bum BAM!" It wasn't even predictable, happening, say, every fourth beat. It happened at random, first after 2 or 3 beats, then after 10 or 12.
After spending almost 2 months feeling amazing, this retreat back into pre-op body chemistry is deeply disturbing. Having heart issues is alarming, so I immediately phoned my surgeon's office and asked to go back to the old dosage. I told them exactly why.
When I say "them," I mean voicemail. I love my surgeon and cannot stand how his office operates. It is harder to get a human being on the phone than it is to win the lottery. I called twice; the pharmacy I use called twice. I finally, days later, got a message on my answering machine from the nurse: "Go get blood work done. We can't change your dose until we know what your blood work says. It will let us know if you need a change."
The worst part of this is that, if they'd actually looked at my chart, they would have seen that my blood work was "normal" BEFORE the surgery. I spent literally 20 years with doctors saying, "Your thyroid is fine. Your blood work is normal." It wasn't until a sharp eyed PA became alarmed by the growths all over my thyroid and referred me to a surgeon that someone said, "Obviously this is not normal!" My surgeon was dismissive of my pre-op blood work, pointing out the gargantuan swelling and unnatural nodules all over my thyroid as being far greater indicators of whether or not something is wrong.
And he was right.
So I phoned the nurse's voicemail back and reminded her of this. Despite assurances by her recorded voice that, "I will get back to you by the end of the day," she did not call back.
Did I mention that I'm experiencing irregular heartbeats? This is not good! I'm shaving my pills down with clippers, trying in vain to cut back my own dose.
Tomorrow, I'm phoning the surgeon's office and simply asking for an appointment to discuss "post-op discomfort or complications." I will not shut up until I get an appointment. I will speak directly to the surgeon, face to face, in an effort to go back to the medication that actually worked for me. And frankly, I will not subject my already angry veins to more blood work unless I have to.
I want the feeling of those two months back! Who knew that "normal" was supposed to feel that good?
After I had my thyroid removed in August, people said things to me like, "Was it making you just miserable?" Well... yes and no. I was certainly aware that the way I felt was not optimal, but it was very normal for me.
I really didn't care to discuss how I felt, either, as most symptoms were vague sounding and lent themselves to armchair diagnoses, and people telling me what I "should" do.
Take fatigue; it's been one of the overriding symptoms of my body chemistry gone wrong. Still, the fact that my body chemistry might be screwed was the last considered possibility on everyone's mental list.
It wasn't a new or alarming symptom. As a teenager, I never pulled an all-nighter, for any reason. Slumber parties always found me being the first one asleep. One of my childhood best friends had a slumber party at her house with half a dozen girls piled into the living room. The stereo was on, kids were dancing, the popcorn popper was going - and in the middle of it all, I was asleep on the floor. It was always like that. I was usually the last one awake the next morning, too. The other kids found me very odd.
I never understood the reasoning behind staying up late to study for a big test. Staying up late would guarantee me that I would do poorly on a test. I've never been intoxicated, but I completely understand why studies show that drowsy driving is indistinguishable from drunk driving. Being tired means that my thoughts, reactions, understanding of situations, reasoning ability, emotions, co-ordination and recall are all deeply impaired. If I wanted to do well on a test, it was best that I get extra sleep.
I've read that if you need an alarm clock to wake up, you're not getting enough sleep. That never made sense to me. "Your body will automatically wake up when you've had enough sleep to be refreshed," I remember reading. HA! I laughed. Without an alarm, I would routinely sleep 12 hours or more, and I never felt refreshed. Ever.
It's always been worse when I'm sick. A couple of years ago, when I had the flu, my kids left me alone until after 3 in the afternoon, when my son finally decided he'd better wake me up. (I'd gone to bed at 10 the night before.) Still, everyone's more tired when they're sick.
"You're sleeping too much," people said. "Sleep less and you'll feel better." It did no good to say, "No. I won't." I had two choices: feel like a total, barely functional zombie, or be functional.
Mostly, people said, "Lose weight and exercise more. Then you'll feel better." I got tired of explaining that I felt exactly the same when I was 12 years old and (literally) half my current weight (and still my current height). I fell asleep in high school classes (especially right after lunch) more often than I wanted to count. At 18, I once fell asleep at my office job. I was doing better as an adult, despite being heavier, because I no longer saw any possible benefit in pushing until I'm totally exhausted.
"It's just a habit," people said. "Train yourself to expect less sleep, and you'll be fine." Ugh. This, again, ignored the fact that, as a parent, I've had to function for weeks (and months) straight on very little, constantly interrupted sleep. I know what it feels like, and doing that for long periods is dangerous. It can be done, but it's not good for anybody.
It took me years to convince my husband that when we go on vacation, I can do early mornings OR late nights, not both. If I push too hard, I will get sick. "Illness is caused by germs," he'd say. "There's no way this will make you sick." He's one of those people who wants to be the first one in Disneyland for Magic Morning hours, and the last to leave Main Street an hour after the park has officially closed. I can't do that.
"You're imagining things. You think you'll get sick, so you do," people said. I'm not a hysteric or an attention seeker. I've actually had to go to an urgent care facility while on vacation on more than one occasion. I'd SO much rather be doing something else, but I can't. Attending a friend's wedding in Palm Springs in August one year, I contracted such a vicious case of bronchitis that it took 3 full courses of antibiotics to kill, and left me with permanent lung damage. Six years later, in Florida in April, my newly acquired asthma (thank you, aforementioned lung damage) left me unable to breathe and scrambling to procure an inhaler.
We learned to take it easy. Still, a vacation (which I truly enjoy) usually meant that I'd be sick, while still traveling or after returning home. Sometimes, my husband and kids would leave me in a hotel room to sleep all day one day, so that I could resume functioning for the rest of the trip.
Seven weeks after my surgery, we were taking a trip that we'd planned for over a year. It meant hotels in 4 different cities over 12 days, a lot of driving, amusement parks, museums, the zoo, the aquarium, family visits, the beach and the wild animal park, all with my entire immediate family of 7. We weren't sure how I'd feel, so I was prepared to take a day off if I needed it. I didn't.
One of the biggest surprises after the surgery was how I felt. "You'll be completely miserable for about 6 weeks," the surgeon had told me. "Then it'll slowly start to get better." I never got to completely miserable. I went from mildly uncomfortable straight up to better than I'd ever felt. Five days after surgery, I was shooting portraits.
I started waking up five to ten minutes before my alarm went off - not once or twice, but regularly. Once, I woke up a full hour before my alarm. I lay there thinking, "Is it just my bladder waking me up? Am I still tired?" Nope. So, up I got, and on with my day. It's happened again. Days when I could sleep in had me waking up and ready to go 45 minutes before my alarm went off.
I rarely needed a nap. I think I took maybe 3 naps in almost 3 months. That's unheard of.
We went through the entire twelve day trip, and I felt fabulous. I didn't sleep in, I didn't get sick, my asthma stayed quiet. I came home thinking, "Oh, it'll hit now." I had a full schedule of rehearsals, photos to shoot, early morning classes to take my son to, and I still felt great.
My husband couldn't get over it. "That trip would have killed you before! You'd be bedridden for days!" I know! It was amazing.
I also - and this was just as amazing - fell asleep within minutes of going to bed. One of the worst parts of the constant exhaustion I'm used to is that it's perversely accompanied by insomnia. It could take 3 or 4 hours to fall asleep, despite being so tired I was nearly in tears. ("It's because you actually sleep too much," people would say. I will not describe how annoying I found that attitude.) Too often, I resorted to Tylenol PM in an effort to fall asleep. Now, I lay down and actually fell asleep! It was amazing and exciting.
Another "normal for me" problem that I've had my whole like is hypoglycemia - low blood sugar. It runs in my family. I never associated it with my thyroid, or considered it "curable."
When you're hypoglycemic, you need to eat regularly, preferably high protein meals. Skipping meals, especially breakfast, can be disastrous. I have scars on my shoulder from the time I passed out, at age 17, while cooking eggs for breakfast and fell against the burner on the way down. Pregnant with my first child at 20, I passed out at the top of a flight of stairs. I learned to make breakfast my first priority.
When you're fat, and I am, people are very skeptical when you tell them what you eat, when and why. We were friends with the manager of a local pizza place, and he noticed my food one day while we had lunch at their buffet. I had 2 slices of pizza and a salad. "Are you on a diet?" he asked. "Are you trying to be good?" No. That's how I eat. If I felt like having half a pizza, I would. I not only don't feel like it, I'm pretty sure I'd throw up if I piled my plate the way some patrons do. That messes with people's heads. They're sure I do a lot of secret eating. I don't. I don't do a lot of secret anything.
I read weight loss stories where people tell how they'd down a whole pizza and a quart of ice cream, then order Chinese takeout before they changed their ways and lost weight and I think, "Holy cow!" I don't care how big or small you are, eating like that is a terrible idea. It's also nothing that I ever did. I don't binge; I don't starve.
When you tell people that you have a medical condition that requires you to eat regularly, or to stop for a snack during the afternoon, nobody thinks anything of it if you're skinny. If you're fat, they say things about "justification" and "denial" (in private if not to your face). It's SO aggravating.
Again, I'm not imagining these issues. Again, low blood sugar runs in the family.
I know the symptoms. If I don't eat correctly (read: regularly and high protein), first I'll feel nauseated and headachy. If I don't fix it, then I start getting disoriented, shaky and weak. If, heaven forbid, I don't fix it then, my ears will start to ring and the color will drain out of everything, leaving it black and white. If I don't get some juice or something else that absorbs quickly into my system at that point, I faint. The rest of my family gets similar symptoms. My son's vision has never gone totally black and white; he gets a pulsing black ring around the edges of his vision.
After the surgery, I've had no blood sugar issues. I once had a granola bar for breakfast and ate nothing else until 2 in the afternoon, and had no problems. It wasn't even a protein bar or a nut bar, just a plain old Quaker Oat bar barely bigger than a cigar. That, again, is unheard of. I didn't even get a headache.
I went in to my surgeon for a checkup after I came home from vacation. Since my thyroid is gone, I'll be taking daily medication for the rest of my life. He started me on a very generic "adult dose," and at my last checkup told me that he'd be increasing the dosage by 25 milligrams. "You should start to feel a lot better, and have a lot more energy. You should also start to lose some weight," he said. Feel better? More energy? That was almost inconceivable; I'd surely be able to leap tall buildings in a single bound.
Soon after switching the dosage, I started to feel run down. I wondered if I was finally getting a cold. Usually, by the end of November, as it is now, I've had two or three ugly ones. I haven't had any this fall.
Nope. Soon I was exhausted, all the time, having blood sugar issues, facing insomnia ... in short, feeling like I did before the surgery.
Worse, I developed one of the symptoms that they had warned me I would develop if I left my thyroid issues untreated - irregular heartbeat. I'll be lying down, trying to sleep, and my heart will start speeding up. Then, instead of a normal "bum bum, bum bum" rhythm, my heart would go, "bum bum, bum bum, bum BAM!, bum bum, bum BAM!" It wasn't even predictable, happening, say, every fourth beat. It happened at random, first after 2 or 3 beats, then after 10 or 12.
After spending almost 2 months feeling amazing, this retreat back into pre-op body chemistry is deeply disturbing. Having heart issues is alarming, so I immediately phoned my surgeon's office and asked to go back to the old dosage. I told them exactly why.
When I say "them," I mean voicemail. I love my surgeon and cannot stand how his office operates. It is harder to get a human being on the phone than it is to win the lottery. I called twice; the pharmacy I use called twice. I finally, days later, got a message on my answering machine from the nurse: "Go get blood work done. We can't change your dose until we know what your blood work says. It will let us know if you need a change."
The worst part of this is that, if they'd actually looked at my chart, they would have seen that my blood work was "normal" BEFORE the surgery. I spent literally 20 years with doctors saying, "Your thyroid is fine. Your blood work is normal." It wasn't until a sharp eyed PA became alarmed by the growths all over my thyroid and referred me to a surgeon that someone said, "Obviously this is not normal!" My surgeon was dismissive of my pre-op blood work, pointing out the gargantuan swelling and unnatural nodules all over my thyroid as being far greater indicators of whether or not something is wrong.
And he was right.
So I phoned the nurse's voicemail back and reminded her of this. Despite assurances by her recorded voice that, "I will get back to you by the end of the day," she did not call back.
Did I mention that I'm experiencing irregular heartbeats? This is not good! I'm shaving my pills down with clippers, trying in vain to cut back my own dose.
Tomorrow, I'm phoning the surgeon's office and simply asking for an appointment to discuss "post-op discomfort or complications." I will not shut up until I get an appointment. I will speak directly to the surgeon, face to face, in an effort to go back to the medication that actually worked for me. And frankly, I will not subject my already angry veins to more blood work unless I have to.
I want the feeling of those two months back! Who knew that "normal" was supposed to feel that good?
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